Worried About Estate Planning? It’s Not As Scary As You Think

Ravi Solanki • February 20, 2026

Many people put off estate planning because they don’t want to think about the end of their lives. This is very understandable. 


In fact, one study from
King’s College London found that nearly half (47 per cent) of UK adults are worried their death or that of a loved one will be painful or undignified.


Estate planning also feels like a problem that can be tackled in the future – particularly when you’re in your 50s or 60s and have a lot of life ahead of you.


However, many of the clients we work with also reveal that they have spent time worrying about their lack of estate planning. They consider it a complicated process. This puts another barrier in place, which leads to further procrastination. 


But when you work through this process with an experienced professional, estate planning can be much simpler than you might imagine and bring you a level of clarity you may not have expected. 


Where do you start with estate planning?

If you contact Sure Wealth for estate planning in Woodford, the first step is always what we call a Legacy Clarity Session. What surprises many people is that this session is focused much less on your financial wealth and much more on what is of value in your life. 


This distinction is important. Once we know what is most important to you – whether that is supporting your children or grandchildren, putting succession plans in place for your business or charitable giving – it is much easier to create your bespoke estate plan. 


During this conversation we talk about your family dynamics, what really matters to you and how we can translate what you hold dear into an estate plan that provides clarity and direction.


What is the first step for creating an estate plan?

What needs to be included in your estate plan will depend on your individual circumstances, but there are a few key pillars that we focus on for the vast majority of our clients. 


First and foremost, it’s important to have an up-to-date will. Data from the
National Will Register reveals that only 53 per cent of adults in the UK have a will at all. 


Wills are often thought of as “once-and-done” documents. But the reality is that you should revisit and amend them as your life changes. 


So, if you have a will, we’ll assess it for its relevance to your current circumstances. If you don’t, we’ll work with a professional will writer to create one. 


Other key elements in any estate plan include lasting powers of attorney, trusts, inheritance tax plans and healthcare directives. In many cases, what’s required will be revealed by that initial clarity conversation. 


Ultimately, creating your estate plan is not about focusing on what will happen when you pass away. Instead, it is about creating clarity and removing anxiety around what will happen at the end of your life. 


In most cases, that clarity and calm is far more valuable than any financial asset, because it allows you to live your life on your terms, without worrying about what the future might bring.


If you’d like to escape the cycle of worry about what will happen when you pass away and gain clarity over your estate plan,
book a Clarity Call to find out how we can help.


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Wedding or Civil Partnership Gifts Gifts made on the occasion of a wedding or civil partnership are exempt up to certain limits: £5,000 to a child £2,500 to a grandchild or great-grandchild £1,000 to any other person These gifts must be made before the wedding or civil partnership takes place. Regular Gifts from Income Regular gifts made from your surplus income are exempt from IHT, provided they do not affect your standard of living. These can include contributions to a child's rent or savings account. It's important to maintain records demonstrating that these gifts are part of your normal expenditure. Navigating the intricacies of inheritance tax (IHT) in the UK can be daunting, but understanding the seven-year rule and Potentially Exempt Transfers (PETs) is crucial for effective estate planning. These provisions offer opportunities to minimise IHT liabilities when transferring wealth to your children. 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Conclusion Planning your estate and managing inheritance tax can be complex, but with the right guidance, it doesn’t have to be stressful. At Sure Wealth (Strathmore UK Investments Limited T/A Sure Wealth), we specialise in estate planning, inheritance tax planning, business owner succession planning, and probate services. Our main goal is to ensure your wealth is protected and that your loved ones enjoy financial security. We’re committed to providing thorough, approachable support that makes estate planning straightforward and stress-free. Whether you’re looking to safeguard your assets or plan for the future of your business, our expert team is here to help. For personalised advice and peace of mind, contact Sure Wealth today at 0203 5511090 or email enquiries@surewealth.co.uk. Let us help you build a secure legacy that lasts for generations.